Author: On Rounds with Jesus

  • Near-miss

    Near-miss

    Scripture reading: John 11:1-44

    In reproductive health circles, a maternal near-miss refers to a situation where a woman almost dies but survives a life-threatening complication during pregnancy, childbirth, or within 42 days of the termination of pregnancy.

    Recently, we had such a near-miss. A client who had undergone an emergency caesarean delivery at a peripheral facility was referred to us because her condition was steadily deteriorating post-operatively. On arrival, we assessed her and found she was bleeding internally. She required massive blood transfusion and urgent surgery. While resuscitating her in preparation for the procedure, her heart stopped. She had to be revived. We nearly lost her.

    In the case of Lazarus, he actually died. Jesus’ appointment with His sick friend had been delayed and by the time He arrived, it was four days too late—at least, that was what Mary and Martha thought. The good Teacher had however been intentional in His delay—“that the Son of God may be glorified through it” (John 11:4).

    Jesus arrived at His destination to find His friends mourning, and He mourned with them. He was so moved by their loss that He wept (John 11:35). Jesus feels our pain. He knows about our sufferings. But more importantly, He cares. Groaning in Himself, Jesus came to the tomb. It was a cave, and a stone lay against it. Then Jesus said, “Take away the stone.” Martha, the sister of him who was dead, said to Him, “Lord, by this time there is a stench, for he has been dead four days.”

    Four days after a person dies, the body undergoes significant changes due to decomposition. Initially, the body temperature drops and the muscles stiffen due to rigor mortis, which then gradually fades. Internally, autolysis begins, where enzymes start breaking down cells. This is followed by putrefaction—bacterial activity that causes bloating, discolouration, and the release of foul odours. Gases produced in this process cause the body to swell and leak fluids from its openings. That was Lazarus’ state when Jesus cried out with a loud voice, “Lazarus, come forth!” And immediately, he who had died came out.

    “Did I not say to you that if you would believe, you would see the glory of God?” (John 11:40). Jesus does not miss. But we might narrowly miss out on our miracle if we give in to fear and doubt.

    However bad you think your situation is, as putrid or hopeless as it may seem, Jesus can turn it around. Believe. God can use your pain and misfortune for His glory. Hang in there. Bright skies are coming, where dark clouds have been. Glory is coming!

    Let’s pray

    Thank You for being the God who sees, who feels, and who cares. Thank You for the assurance that even when it seems too late, You are still able to bring life out of death and beauty from brokenness. Like Lazarus, I may face seasons where everything looks hopeless—where the situation stinks and the door is sealed shut—but You are never too late.

    Strengthen my faith to believe even when it hurts, to trust even when I don’t understand. Help me not to give in to fear or doubt. Teach me to wait on You with expectation, knowing that Your glory can still shine through my trials. Revive whatever is dying in me—hope, dreams, relationships, purpose—and call it forth to life again.

    I yield my pain, my past, and my fears to You. Let Your glory be revealed in and through me. In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.

    Reflections

    1. What situations in your life currently feel hopeless or “too far gone”? Have you brought them before Jesus?
    2. How do you typically respond when God seems delayed?
    3. Can you identify a past experience where God used your pain or delay for something greater? How did that change your view of Him?
    4. What “stone” might Jesus be asking you to roll away—something blocking your faith or obedience?
    5. What would it look like for you to “believe and see the glory of God” in your present circumstance?
  • Watch!

    Watch!

    Scripture reading: Matthew 25:1-13

    One too many times, I have encountered clients who present to the clinic with symptoms too late their prognosis is often already poor. What began as a minor complaint was ignored for far too long. By the time they sought help, it was often too late. In some cases, they had obvious risk factors but never screened. This is why diseases like cervical cancer remain so prevalent in our part of the world: many women do not get screened, and when they finally present with symptoms like persistent vaginal discharge or abnormal bleeding, it is often too late.

    In today’s reading, it was too late for a group of virgins, described as foolish because they failed to prepare adequately for the return of the bridegroom. When their lamps went out, they needed extra oil, but they had none. As the Master delayed, the chances of their lamps still burning at His return grew slimmer. They wasted what was meant to be an opportunity to refill. They waited too long, and their lamps burnt out. When they finally went to get more oil, the bridegroom came. They missed the celebration of a lifetime. Jesus ends the parable with the chilling admonition: “Watch…” This parable was about His second coming. The Lord is not slow in keeping His promise— He tarries out of mercy, longing for all to turn to Him. But the call is clear: we must be continually ready, sustained by His Spirit and His word that keeps our lamps burning. We cannot afford to let complacency lull us to sleep.

    Being ready is an act of faith and wisdom. As the saying goes, he who fails to plan, plans to fail. What you postpone today may cost you dearly tomorrow. Watch! Stay alert. Don’t let your lamp go out. Do not defer to tomorrow what must be done today, lest you miss your appointment with destiny.

    To watch means to be alert, to be careful, to be vigilant, to be conscious, to be intentional, to be well aware, to be in tune with the times and seasons. Watch—lest you fall. Watch, for no one knows the hour…

    Let us pray                                          

    Lord, help me not to delay obedience.

    Keep me from the complacency that makes me ignore the promptings of Your Spirit.

    May I be found ready, my lamp burning brightly, when You return.

    Give me the wisdom to watch, to act, and to live each day prepared.

    Amen.

    Reflection                                                

    What have you been postponing— spiritually, emotionally, or even physically— that you need to act on today?

    Don’t wait. Seek counsel, take that step. Stay ready. Watch!

  • When we pray

    When we pray

    Scripture reading: Matthew 6:5-15, NKJV

    Strong relationships are built on robust communication. Many relationships falter because of communication breakdowns. Christianity, unlike organized religion, is a relationship— one that must be actively maintained through constant, heartfelt communication with God. Prayer is not optional for the Christian; it is essential. It is on this premise that Jesus taught His disciples to pray.

    Jesus emphasized that prayer must be sincere. It must not be draped in flowery language to impress onlookers or ‘manipulate’ God. Prayer is not for show; it is not an exhibit of piety. Eloquence and verbosity do not sway God—it is the heart that moves Him. Prayer must be intimate and precise, and grounded firmly in faith.

    When we pray, we must know who we are addressing: Our Father in Heaven. A Father who cares and loves us deeply. A Father who has our best interests at heart. A willing Father. A dependable Father. Our Father. The word “our” reminds us that we are not alone. We are not alone in our struggles. We are not alone in our journey. We have community, and we have a God who hears us. This understanding must shape our posture in prayer.

    “Hallowed be Your name. Your kingdom come. Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven.”  Prayer begins with God—not us. When we pray, our primary focus should be God’s glory—His Name, His Kingdom, His Will. We pray for God’s name to be honoured in our lives, our circles, and our world. We pray for the earth to be filled with the knowledge of the glory of the Lord, as the waters cover the sea. We pray for His Kingdom to be established on earth and for His will to prevail. We pray for the spread of the gospel, for the salvation of many searching for hope, for healing for the sick, and for liberation of the oppressed. Our prayers must first be directed toward God—and then they can reflect on our needs. Seek first His Kingdom…

    “Give us this day…” One of the cures for worry is daily dependence on God’s provision. In prayer, we entrust our needs to Him. We have a Father who knows us and knows our needs even before we voice them. A Father who gives good gifts to His children. A Father who forgives—and, as He forgives us, our default response to those around us must be one of ready forgiveness.

    When we pray, we must ask for the discipline to resist temptation, and the grace to be delivered from evil. We must pray for wisdom to navigate the inevitable “thirst traps” that plague today’s world, and for the laser-sharp focus to pursue righteousness. We must ask for the strength and endurance to run without growing weary, and the resilience to ultimately overcome.

    When we pray, we lose ourselves and become more and more like our Father in heaven.
    When we pray, we make room for God to reveal His glory more clearly in our lives.
    When we pray, we build the resilience to withstand the storms that life brings our way.
    So pray—because the fervent, constant prayer of the righteous is powerful and effective.

    Let us pray.

    Our Father in heaven,
    Hallowed be Your name.
    Your kingdom come.
    Your will be done
    On earth as it is in heaven.
    Give us this day our daily bread.
    And forgive us our debts,
    As we forgive our debtors.
    And do not lead us into temptation,
    But deliver us from the evil one.
    For Yours is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever.

    Amen.

    Reflection

    What is your prayer life like, and how can you improve it by incorporating the lessons from today’s message?

  • Cures for worry

    Cures for worry

    Scripture reading: Matthew 6:25-34, NKJV

    Worrying is dwelling on a problem, or a potential problem, usually one over which we have no control, and getting worked up about it. Humans, by default, worry. And when we do not curb this habit, worry can give rise to unnecessary anxieties that fuel unfounded fears. Fear, as we learnt last week, can lead to death. Today’s message teaches us to guard against this deadly pandemic we know as worry.

    First cure – Prioritize

    “. . . Do not worry about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink; nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food and the body more than clothing?” (verse 25)

    We live in a world today where the temporal seems to matter more than the eternal. It’s a materialistic world, where everyone seems to be chasing the fleeting and ignoring the lasting. If we peg our feelings on fickle things, our feelings will be fickle. Life matters more than food, and the body more than clothes. Prioritize the quality of your life—your health—over trendy, fleeting delicacies. Prioritize your well-being over fashion. Prioritize eternity over the temporal. Prioritize, strategize, plan—that’s your first cure. Don’t be moved by the general flow.

    Second cure – Trust in God’s grace.

    “Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them.” (verse 26)

    Sometimes we forget that the things which appear ‘natural’ are actually the Lord’s active doing. We are not owed breath or life ‘by default’; it is God’s grace that makes these possible. Everything depends on God. And that’s how we need to naturally trust Him to provide.

    This by no means suggests we should be lazy. Just as God has provided for the bird, the bird still needs to fly, hunt, and feed. As we trust in God’s provision, we must show responsibility by working hard.

    Third cure – Know your worth.

    “Look at the birds of the air… Are you not of more value than they?” (verse 26)

    Do you know your worth?

    “What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare His own Son, but gave Him up for us all—how will He not also, along with Him, freely give us all things?”

    If God gave up His only begotten Son for your sake, will He not also provide everything else you need?

    Knowing your worth who you are is also a cure for unnecessary comparisons that can fuel anxiety.

    Fourth cure – Realize that worry is not productive.

    “Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?” (verse 27)

    Fifth cure – Seek first the Kingdom.

    “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” (verse 33)

    Seeking the kingdom means making evangelism and discipleship our primary endeavour. We must constantly pray for people to know Christ and take advantage of opportunities to witness to others. Seeking God’s righteousness means conquering sin and replacing it with righteous acts and attitudes. Jesus has promised that once we seek these, all other things will be added to us. Cash in.

    Sixth cure – Take it one day at a time.

    Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about its own things. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble. (verse 34)

    Everyday has its troubles—it’s a given. But amidst these troubles, God promises grace for the day. Just as the Israelites in the wilderness only received enough bread for each day, God often does the same with us. He gives grace for the step we are on, not the next step—only grace for the day. He does this so we can learn to lean on Him daily.

    Worry is a void created by a lack of faith. Lord, help our unbelief!

    Prayer

    Lord, help our unbelief.
    Where, in word or deed, we have denied Your wisdom by failing to see what You are doing…
    Where we have denied Your love by acting as though You do not care for us…
    Where we have denied Your power by thinking You are unable to deliver us…

    Unburden our worries
    Engulf us with Your love
    Let us know You are with us.

    Reflection

    What worries distract you from reaping the full benefits of God’s promises?